Disposable Men- Love after Abuse Women who've been traumatized or abused growing up or at some point in their development of life can sometimes have a distorted version of what love is. This can cause failed relationships as an adult, one after another, and often many don't even realize why. Why do we push those away that love us the most? Why we do find ourselves in abusive relationships as an adult? Why are we always the victim? (Are we really always the victim?) What is love anyway? Is it what we really think it is, what we were taught it was? There's only one way to find out what true love is...